The Power of Slowth ; Run Your Own Race
In a world where we hurry, taking your time is a form of strength. Sometimes doom scrolling on social media makes us feel like we are falling behind, but when we move too fast, we miss the truth. Slowing down isn't about being lazy; it’s about seeing clearly. IN RELATIONSHIPS When you rush into a relationship, you only see what you want to see. You see the “best version”, sometimes the “worst version” of a person. But real life happens in different seasons. You need to see how someone acts when they are tired, stressed, or angry or in a positive situation. Slowing down gives the other person time to show you who they really are. If you wait, the truth always comes out. You don't have to guess; you just have to watch. IN FRIENDSHIPS In her book, Mel Robbins talks about the “Let Them” theory in friendships. This is a powerful way to handle friendships using three pillars: Proximity, Timing, and Energy. •Proximity: How close a friend is to you means more engagement than ...